Sex With Emily

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down the dynamics of toxic relationships—why we get stuck in them, how to spot the red flags, and what it takes to step into something healthier. She explains how cycles of fighting and making up can become addictive, why perfectionism and unrealistic expectations sabotage intimacy, and the subtle ways emotional unavailability shows up through gaslighting, breadcrumbing, and avoidance.



The episode also explores the deeper psychology behind repeated patterns: why we’re drawn to unavailable partners, how our own fears and defenses play into toxic dynamics, and why real change only happens when both people are willing to do the work. Listener questions and calls highlight unmet needs, long-term relationships starved of affection, and the painful realization that sometimes love isn’t enough to sustain a partnership.



Alongside this, Emily offers clear strategies for breaking toxic cycles, communicating needs without blame, and deciding when it’s time to stay, seek help, or walk away. With candid stories about gaslighting, perfectionism, and emotional neglect, this episode is a raw but empowering guide to recognizing what doesn’t serve you—and finding the courage to choose relationships that do.





Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

3:04 - When High Standards Destroy Love

6:35 - Signs of Emotional Unavailability You Need to Know

11:04 - How Long Will You Stay in an Unfulfilling Relationship?

13:34 - 8 Years of Unmet Needs and One-Sided Love

20:18 - Words vs Actions

25:36 - Anniversary Disappointment After 28 Years of Marriage

30:59 - Having the Difficult Conversation Your Relationship Needs

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily tackles one of the biggest barriers to great sex: fear. From fear of rejection to body image anxieties, this episode explores how our sexual fears hold us back and provides practical strategies for overcoming them. Dr. Emily opens with the fundamental truth that fear is often "false evidence appearing real" - we create rules around what we're afraid of and then live by them, preventing ourselves from having the sex we truly want and deserve.



Throughout the episode, Dr. Emily addresses common sexual fears from farting during sex to penis size anxieties to performance worries, emphasizing that we're all perfectionists when it comes to sex despite reality being much messier and more human. The episode concludes with the empowering message that facing our fears is the path to becoming our own best sexual advocate. When we ask for what we want authentically, we either get our needs met or gain valuable information about compatibility, because we all deserve pleasure and shouldn't put ourselves last in our own sexual lives.



Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction

0:23 - How Antidepressants Affect Your Sex Life

1:15 - Female Sexuality and Cultural Double Standards

2:30 - Wetness Myths: Arousal vs. Lubrication Explained

6:26 - When You're "Too Wet" - Solutions and Normalizing

8:17 - Understanding Arousal Beyond Physical Signs

9:06 - Kegel Exercises for Better Orgasms

13:15 - Caller April: Relationship Stress Killing Sex Drive

17:00 - Communication Red Flags in Relationships

23:40 - Prozac and Orgasm Difficulties

26:31 - Switching from Lexapro to Wellbutrin Success Story

28:40 - Why Medication Doses Differ for Women

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This episode tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in sexuality with two leading experts: Dr. Charlie Glickman, co-author of "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure," and Dr. Hernando Chavez. Together, they bust the biggest myths surrounding anal play, from the damaging idea that learning from porn is effective (spoiler: it's like "learning to drive from watching a car chase movie") to misconceptions about sexual orientation and hygiene.

The conversation transforms anal exploration from anxiety-inducing taboo into approachable pleasure education. Charlie breaks down the real anatomy behind prostate stimulation and explains why men who receive anal play often become better lovers, while Hernando addresses cultural barriers and shares how that forbidden factor can actually enhance arousal. They dive into practical preparation techniques, revolutionary lube innovations, and why starting with external play removes performance pressure.

Whether dealing with complete curiosity or recovering from painful past experiences, this episode provides the shame-free guidance needed to explore backdoor pleasure safely and successfully.



Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro
1:16 - Anal Play Discussion
2:57 - Why Anal Sex Isn't for Everyone
4:47 - Prostate Massage for Men: Breaking the Stigma
7:47 - How to Find and Stimulate the Prostate
11:41 - Benefits of Anal Play for Couples
15:23 - Anal Play Tips and Toy Recommendations
18:03 - Pegging Basics and Prostate Stimulation
21:22 - How to Bring Up Anal Play with Your Partner
25:58 - Discussing Anal with Your Wife
36:18 - Common Anal Sex Myths Debunked
42:08 - Personal Stories and Learning Experiences
44:27 - Preparation and Hygiene for Anal Play
47:06 - Essential Lube Tips and Product Recommendations

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In this thought-provoking episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes linguist and author Amanda Montell ("Word Sl*t: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language") explore how patriarchal language controls our sex lives. They reveal why terms like "penetration" frame intimacy from a male perspective, how medical language describes vaginas as "organs that receive the penis" while penises get weapon metaphors, and why violent bedroom slang reflects power imbalances.



The discussion covers language reclamation strategies, from using "vulva" instead of "vajay-jay" to how transgender communities create new sexual terminology. Dr. Emily addresses listener questions about safe sex conversations during hookups, overcoming conservative shame around oral pleasure, and breaking toxic relationship cycles.



This episode shows how conscious language choices can revolutionize sexual experiences, moving from patriarchal frameworks toward more equitable intimate expression.



Timestamps:

0:22 - Introduction

4:21 - Why "penetration" frames sex from a penis perspective

7:56 - Medical definitions: "the organ that receives the penis"

11:16 - The problem with "vajay-jay"

18:02 - Mission to reclaim slurs

28:15 - Safe sex conversations during hookups

31:58 - Learning to enjoy giving oral pleasure

39:24 - Breaking recurring relationship explosion patterns

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily tackles one of the biggest barriers to great sex: fear. From fear of rejection to body image anxieties, this episode explores how our sexual fears hold us back and provides practical strategies for overcoming them. Dr. Emily opens with the fundamental truth that fear is often "false evidence appearing real" - we create rules around what we're afraid of and then live by them, preventing ourselves from having the sex we truly want and deserve.



Throughout the episode, Dr. Emily addresses common sexual fears from farting during sex to penis size anxieties to performance worries, emphasizing that we're all perfectionists when it comes to sex despite reality being much messier and more human. The episode concludes with the empowering message that facing our fears is the path to becoming our own best sexual advocate. When we ask for what we want authentically, we either get our needs met or gain valuable information about compatibility, because we all deserve pleasure and shouldn't put ourselves last in our own sexual lives.



0:00 - Introduction

4:13 - Common Sexual Fears We All Face

6:43 - Period Sex Anxiety

17:50 - Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom

23:25 - Sexual Trauma & PTSD

32:38 - Dreams About Your Ex: What They Really Mean

44:01 - Body Image Fears & Sexual Perfectionism

47:23 - Becoming Your Best Sexual Partner

50:04 - Role Playing to Overcome Sexual Fears

54:05 - Closing the Orgasm Gap Together